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Thu, 02 Jul 2026

Thu, 02 Jul 2026 'We give up to £400': How much should you gift at a wedding?

Wedding lists are being replaced by cash requests, but guests are divided over how much to give.

* Couples are increasingly asking guests to contribute to a honeymoon fund instead of giving traditional gifts.
* Prezola, a wedding list service, says the average guest contribution is £116, but expectations can vary widely depending on closeness and culture.
* Some couples use honeymoon funds as spending money for their trip, while others may already have paid for it or use the money for other purposes, such as IVF or home renovations.
* Guests are torn between giving a standard amount, following what others give, or being more generous to those they're close to.
* Cultural differences also come into play, with some guests expecting to spend more on travel and accommodation than others.
* Some couples are opting for more unique and personalized gifts, such as experiences or specific items that bring joy.